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(as an aside before I start this comment, me and my partner are both exceptionally blunt on all accounts)
I've mentioned to my partner before that he's not the kind of attractive I expected to wind up with, but that I'm pretty sure most of that is rooted in daddy issues, so it's probably for the best.
I've also told my partner that when he makes that very specific devious chuckle (that deep genuine one it's hard to fake like when I send him a really good meme) sometimes I can feel my vagina make a little sploosh of goo.
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Daughters marry their dads equivalents. (But only if they are in a good relationship to their fathers).
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Related: I know that incest is currently a popular fetish, but I discovered a long time ago that if a girl looks too much like my sister its an immediate turn-off. It did take me a little while to connect why I found so many models, who seemed to be popular, so unattractive.
I don't think I've ever meet anyone who looks like mom, so that hasn't been an issue. My wife resembles no-one in my family.
Freud claimed all men want to marry their mothers. I haven't found this to be commonly true, and now I don't trust "daddy issues" being common, either.
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Daughters marry their dads equivalents. (But only if they are in a good relationship to their fathers).
Many, many victims of domestic abuse would disagree, I'm sure!
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Related: I know that incest is currently a popular fetish, but I discovered a long time ago that if a girl looks too much like my sister its an immediate turn-off. It did take me a little while to connect why I found so many models, who seemed to be popular, so unattractive.
I don't think I've ever meet anyone who looks like mom, so that hasn't been an issue. My wife resembles no-one in my family.
Freud claimed all men want to marry their mothers. I haven't found this to be commonly true, and now I don't trust "daddy issues" being common, either.
wrote last edited by [email protected]It's not, the Oedipal complex is a correlation. The "marrying one's parent" phenomenon most certainly has a psychological causality somewhere, but it's certainly not due to a generally applicable Oedipal complex.
A concrete example, the only relatively comparable thing I've had to deal with was tending to select romantic partners based on how familiar my dynamics with them were to me. Having lived in an unhealthy familial environment and with relatively few childhood friends, the only familiar I had was belligerent and punitive. Otherwise, none of my parents, or even from my extended family, are my type. I'm saying this in a literal sense. And this is against a constant, solid background of "like...no, they're family."
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Related: I know that incest is currently a popular fetish, but I discovered a long time ago that if a girl looks too much like my sister its an immediate turn-off. It did take me a little while to connect why I found so many models, who seemed to be popular, so unattractive.
I don't think I've ever meet anyone who looks like mom, so that hasn't been an issue. My wife resembles no-one in my family.
Freud claimed all men want to marry their mothers. I haven't found this to be commonly true, and now I don't trust "daddy issues" being common, either.
I had an irrational hatred for Thandie Newton and I didnβt realize why until someone pointed out that she looks like my birth mother.
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Many, many victims of domestic abuse would disagree, I'm sure!
Would you say that domeatic abuse victims have good relations with their abusive parents?
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I had an irrational hatred for Thandie Newton and I didnβt realize why until someone pointed out that she looks like my birth mother.
Ok, but: your mom's a QT.
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Ok, but: your mom's a QT.
Maybe but she's an abusive psychopath.
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It's not, the Oedipal complex is a correlation. The "marrying one's parent" phenomenon most certainly has a psychological causality somewhere, but it's certainly not due to a generally applicable Oedipal complex.
A concrete example, the only relatively comparable thing I've had to deal with was tending to select romantic partners based on how familiar my dynamics with them were to me. Having lived in an unhealthy familial environment and with relatively few childhood friends, the only familiar I had was belligerent and punitive. Otherwise, none of my parents, or even from my extended family, are my type. I'm saying this in a literal sense. And this is against a constant, solid background of "like...no, they're family."
I love Lemmy. It's a place where you can post a comment and not know if you're going to get a vitriolic anarchist taking exception to how you said something, or a detailed, clinical clarification of a point.
On Reddit, you get only the first thing. I live for the second.
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Many, many victims of domestic abuse would disagree, I'm sure!
(But only if they are in a good relationship to their fathers).
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Maybe but she's an abusive psychopath.
Oh, sorry about that.
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It's not, the Oedipal complex is a correlation. The "marrying one's parent" phenomenon most certainly has a psychological causality somewhere, but it's certainly not due to a generally applicable Oedipal complex.
A concrete example, the only relatively comparable thing I've had to deal with was tending to select romantic partners based on how familiar my dynamics with them were to me. Having lived in an unhealthy familial environment and with relatively few childhood friends, the only familiar I had was belligerent and punitive. Otherwise, none of my parents, or even from my extended family, are my type. I'm saying this in a literal sense. And this is against a constant, solid background of "like...no, they're family."
Isn't it just dead simple in that a mother is caring and gives you the feeling of safety, generally speaking, so you look for that in a partner too?
So it's not that you want to fuck your mom but you look for positive traits in a partner that you parents instilled in you.
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Would you say that domeatic abuse victims have good relations with their abusive parents?
blahaj.zone
what did you expect?
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(But only if they are in a good relationship to their fathers).
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Yes, that's what I was referring to, it's not exclusively women who've had good relationships with their fathers, some go for their aggressive and violent father's look-alike.
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Isn't it just dead simple in that a mother is caring and gives you the feeling of safety, generally speaking, so you look for that in a partner too?
So it's not that you want to fuck your mom but you look for positive traits in a partner that you parents instilled in you.
Agreed, it's that familiarity I referenced! But talking from Freud's perspective, "if it isn't about sex, then get out of here" (paraphrasing):))
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Maybe but she's an abusive psychopath.
Yeah, but the crazy ones are the best in bed. Have you tried fucking her?
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Yeah, but the crazy ones are the best in bed. Have you tried fucking her?
not worth it IMO
