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How much do you tip at a restaurant?

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    To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

    Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

    What do you usually do?

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      To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

      Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

      What do you usually do?

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      but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

      That seems pretty unusual to me.

      I normally tip 20%.

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        To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

        Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

        What do you usually do?

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        15% typically, more if it warrants it. Food keeps getting more expensive, so the percentage doesn’t have to go up.

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          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

          What do you usually do?

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          Typically 20-25 at a restaurant. I’m not a fan of tipping for transactions where I’m not served. I only tip when someone does something.

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            To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

            Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

            What do you usually do?

            zak@lemmy.worldZ This user is from outside of this forum
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            In the USA: 20%. In Europe: 10%. If service is exceptional or bad, I adjust up or down.

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              To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

              Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

              What do you usually do?

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              I give $2 for a pizza, $1-2 if I’m picking up to go. Usually I go 15-20% for standard service but rarely tip over $30 a server unless the meal was outstanding.

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                To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                What do you usually do?

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                Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee's market value are between the employee and their employer. I don't believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees' wages through tips.

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                  To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                  Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                  What do you usually do?

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                  I was going to answer, but then you clarified on the body of your post that you only wanted answers from people in the US, lol

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                    To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                    Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                    What do you usually do?

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                    Usually 20% and round up the change. Less of there are server issues. A buck or two more if service is super. I don't tip if I'm standing up when i order.

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                      To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                      Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                      What do you usually do?

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                      in Canada, usually 15%, if the service is outstanding or i'm a regular I'll tip 20%

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                        To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                        Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                        What do you usually do?

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                        Growing up, and even after working in foodservice, I was always told to tip at least 20% (almost) regardless of service.

                        There's been maybe two times I didn't tip 20% and the lower tip was definitely earned.

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                          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                          What do you usually do?

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                          When I lived in the US, 15%. Now 0%, feels great.

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                            To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                            Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                            What do you usually do?

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                            Nothing, I live in a country where it's the employer's responsibility to pay their staff a livable wage.

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                              To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                              Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                              What do you usually do?

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                              I usually aim for the nearest dollar around 30%.

                              I'm a defense contractor and none of the "work" I have ever done in my life has done any human any good. I think it's important to use my nonsense salary to pay the people who actually add value to society.

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                                Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee's market value are between the employee and their employer. I don't believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees' wages through tips.

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                                While your argument is sound, a server can't feed their children or care for disabled parents with sound arguments and principled stances.

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                                  To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                  Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                  What do you usually do?

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                                  I’m a good tipper, having waited tables before, so usually ~30% but it’s certainly not expected. 20% is the standard tip.

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                                    To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                    Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                    What do you usually do?

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                                    Typically somewhere between 15-20%. I do a rough mental calculation figuring out 10% by moving the decimal, then either double that or figure out what half of that is and roughly add that amount to the 10% amount, then go with a nice roundish number (to the nearest quarter) in that range. Usually a little higher than my rough estimate for 15% if I’m on that low end just so my rough math doesn’t inadvertently shortchange the server.

                                    I make my calculation based on the total with tax included. I know some people go on the pretax amount.

                                    BONUS: If I’m doing a delivery service like DoorDash, I look up my distance to the restaurant and make sure the tip is always at least equal to the mileage. I used to drive for them and $1/mile was always my minimum. DoorDash at least would typically only kick in $2/delivery, unless there were bonus promos. Since the driver might not be at the restaurant I figure that’s probably enough to get them to the restaurant, then the tip will get them from there to me. Actually, at home my house is several miles from any restaurants, so I usually go $4 above that to make sure the driver doesn’t lose money getting back to civilization. If I’m at a hotel close to restaurants I won’t necessarily do that. If it’s something where I’d like to try to get the best service I’ll go higher; they typically offer the highest pay orders to their top rated drivers first.

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                                      To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                      Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                      What do you usually do?

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                                      15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I'll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

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                                        In the USA: 20%. In Europe: 10%. If service is exceptional or bad, I adjust up or down.

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                                        Please don't fucking tip in Europe, tipping culture isn't normalized there and servers actually get a fair wage.

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                                          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                          What do you usually do?

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                                          I have generally tipped at least 20%. But tipped workers in my state just fought to keep their sub-minimum wage, because republicans convinced them that people would stop tipping if they were paid more. Tipped minimum wage was going up to $6, but now it's only going up to $4.74. I've been tipping too much, and will bring it back down to max 15%.

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