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What's a personal weakness you possess that is entirely not relevant to your daily life?

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  • J [email protected]

    I can't swim. Then again I just never go near deep water and am not a swimming pool enthusiast.

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    I can technically swim, but I can't open my eyes under water, so it's not safe to attempt swimming. Now I'm just grossed out by the ick in lakes and swimming pools, and I can't handle the heat anymore either, so I'll probably never swim again

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    • interstellar_1@lemmy.blahaj.zoneI [email protected]

      I am unable to do the magic eye things, my eyes just don't focus on that way. Good thing I never am required to

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      I have trouble making up context in conversations. I just don't have that many daily convos that require adquiring context

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      • M [email protected]

        I never learned to ride a bike and every attempt has been met with injuries as soon as I build a modicum of confidence. But I can rollerblade like nobody’s business, so I got that going for me.

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        I can roller blade (in-line wheels), but roller skate? Impossible. Last time I tried was a disaster, I just can’t get the hang of them.

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          I can't whistle so always called my kids with a trill sound (like a loud Spanish RR, not Arabic ululation) and it is also my recall sound for the dogs. But I really can't whistle. Can sort of make a sound but it's laughably mockably wimpy.

          Can't catch at all either, can throw reasonably accurately most of the time but an object coming at me never goes where my hands think it should. I am shamed by my penultimate daughter, who despite nearsightedness worse even than mine was, and a strong drive to be non-athletic, can pluck anything out of the air, has both lighting fast reflexes and intuitive hand eye coordination. But it doesn't really affect me other than occasional embarrassment - I just pick whatever it is up off the floor after it hits me.

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          This is really funny considering there’s a Bob’s Burgers episode about exactly that. The wife, Linda can roll her Rs but can’t whistle, while the husband, Bob can whistle but can’t roll his Rs. It’s a whole plot.

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          • L [email protected]

            My right foot is almost one size wider than my left foot. Finding a good pair of shoes is hard.

            And I can't remember what kind of clothes people are wearing. Colours, sometimes, but it's like my visual cortex dedicates zero processing power for clothes.

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            Oh man, the clothes thing. I have to consciously make it a point to remember what my nephews wear when I’m in charge of them. I’m terrified of losing sight of them and when asked, “What were they wearing?” I’d have no idea what to say.

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            • S [email protected]

              I have the same problem, except one day I figured it out! I was rolling rrrs all day! But the next day I woke up and could only sort of do it. And now I can't do it at all again, despite trying to learn.

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              Funny thing, I learned to roll my Rs by pretending to purr like a cat.

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                I'm with you on github for sure. I assume people who use it regularly think it has a decent layout but to me it seems so random and disjointed that I can't imagine how that's possible.

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                As someone who uses GitHub everyday, I don't think about the layout at all. The uploading, downloading, version control etc is all done with terminal commands or desktop tools. So separate from the website (but my code still ends up on there).

                If I ever have to go to GitHub.com in a browser it's only to copy a repository URL and I always marvel at how ugly and convoluted that website looks.

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                • W [email protected]

                  I can roller blade (in-line wheels), but roller skate? Impossible. Last time I tried was a disaster, I just can’t get the hang of them.

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                  I know – same! I fall constantly on traditional skates.
                  My wife is the opposite. She can’t figure out in-line skates, but traditional skates just work for her.

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                  • S [email protected]

                    How do you slow down / stop with rollerblades? I had the reverse experience: any kind of hill, I'm fine on a bike but I always crash on rollerblades. I would love to learn though.

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                    Most common way is to put one foot behind and angle it perpendicular to the way you going, this cause friction between the wheels and the surface causing you to slow down. Experienced rollerbladers can do this with both feet at the same time.

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                    • gradually_adjusting@lemmy.worldG [email protected]

                      Auditory processing disorder makes it really hard to deal with multiple people talking.

                      I work from home, so

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                      I absolutely hate this. If I'm working on site, about 99% of the time I have noise-canceling earbuds in. No I actually want to write my code without having to stop and find my place every 30 seconds while Janet and Kevin talk about their weekend excursions for half the day.

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                        I absolutely hate this. If I'm working on site, about 99% of the time I have noise-canceling earbuds in. No I actually want to write my code without having to stop and find my place every 30 seconds while Janet and Kevin talk about their weekend excursions for half the day.

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                        I'm struggling to even write this comment while my family is nattering away in the next room, fuck writing code while people talk

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                          I am with you on sewing machines, I have run it slowly while watching and it still breaks my mind. I don't understand how the stitch can hold, what it looks like it's doing would just unravel. It's like it defies physics.

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                          Absolutely. I watched a great video explaining how it does it and felt like I understood for five minutes, and I know it's something about putting loops through loops through loops forever, and yes it absolutely does unravel if it's not secured at both ends, but the way it threads the new loop through the old loop with a wheel that keeps turning in the same direction all the time, that is just pure magic and has no right to be possible in regular three dimensional reality.

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                            Couldn't admit this to myself until my 40's, but I have a serious mechanical handicap. Doesn't stop me from trying!

                            We had standard tests in elementary school and I jammed out in the 90+ percentile on most subjects. The last part was called spatial reasoning. Here's 3 shapes, if you put them together, which shape will they make. Stuff like that. Tried really hard, couldn't do it.

                            I can take things apart pretty well, and I'm good at creative solutions, just can't get the thing back together.

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                            Oh, holy crap, I have the same. I was looking at a Scientific American print magazine a long time ago and in the back there were 2 quizzes. One said take these letters and make as many words as you can, and I knocked that out of the park, so easy. The other was a series of images of pairs of 3d models - like the ball-and-stick things used to show molecules. They said some are mirror images and some are the same, and they were rotated in different ways. Basically said find which are mirrors and which aren't, how many can you find in 5 minutes.

                            None. Not in any amount of minutes. I looked at them for an hour, until I was crying, my brain would not see it. I also can't read maps unless they are facing the same way as I am, oriented with the actual world, but that must be common because phones do show them that way now.

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                              This is really funny considering there’s a Bob’s Burgers episode about exactly that. The wife, Linda can roll her Rs but can’t whistle, while the husband, Bob can whistle but can’t roll his Rs. It’s a whole plot.

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                              My oldest kid is 30 now, so this precedes the show by quite a few years, it's pretty funny but it did help when they were in a pack of loud kids. And yeah both my ex and my husband can whistle LOUDLY, but I cannot at all.

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                                Oh, holy crap, I have the same. I was looking at a Scientific American print magazine a long time ago and in the back there were 2 quizzes. One said take these letters and make as many words as you can, and I knocked that out of the park, so easy. The other was a series of images of pairs of 3d models - like the ball-and-stick things used to show molecules. They said some are mirror images and some are the same, and they were rotated in different ways. Basically said find which are mirrors and which aren't, how many can you find in 5 minutes.

                                None. Not in any amount of minutes. I looked at them for an hour, until I was crying, my brain would not see it. I also can't read maps unless they are facing the same way as I am, oriented with the actual world, but that must be common because phones do show them that way now.

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                                Funny, i have a really hard time with maps unless they are oriented with north up. The modern gps orientation drives me crazy

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                                • interstellar_1@lemmy.blahaj.zoneI [email protected]

                                  I am unable to do the magic eye things, my eyes just don't focus on that way. Good thing I never am required to

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                                  My eyes dont work together so i dont actually see depth. I can kind of assume depth with paralax and shadows, but i didnt realize until i was in my 20s that people saw stuff like a 3d movie. For some reason (best i can come up with is the exaggerated differences) i can see 3d in vr headsets (stereoscopes) and red/blue 3d. When real-d came out, i was very confused because it just doesnt look 3d to me at all.
                                  Edit: Magic Eye doesnt work for me even a little. My brother can do it and i have tried to the point of tears, with tutorials and everything.

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                                    Funny thing, I learned to roll my Rs by pretending to purr like a cat.

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                                    My problem is I learned french first so all my fancy rrrs are throaty out of habit 😕

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                                      Oh, holy crap, I have the same. I was looking at a Scientific American print magazine a long time ago and in the back there were 2 quizzes. One said take these letters and make as many words as you can, and I knocked that out of the park, so easy. The other was a series of images of pairs of 3d models - like the ball-and-stick things used to show molecules. They said some are mirror images and some are the same, and they were rotated in different ways. Basically said find which are mirrors and which aren't, how many can you find in 5 minutes.

                                      None. Not in any amount of minutes. I looked at them for an hour, until I was crying, my brain would not see it. I also can't read maps unless they are facing the same way as I am, oriented with the actual world, but that must be common because phones do show them that way now.

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                                      I find this interesting. I know the OP's question specifically asked for things that don't affect you day to day, but do you find any kind of daily activities difficult? Just random thoughts... Folding clothes? Parallel parking? IKEA furniture?

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                                        Oh, holy crap, I have the same. I was looking at a Scientific American print magazine a long time ago and in the back there were 2 quizzes. One said take these letters and make as many words as you can, and I knocked that out of the park, so easy. The other was a series of images of pairs of 3d models - like the ball-and-stick things used to show molecules. They said some are mirror images and some are the same, and they were rotated in different ways. Basically said find which are mirrors and which aren't, how many can you find in 5 minutes.

                                        None. Not in any amount of minutes. I looked at them for an hour, until I was crying, my brain would not see it. I also can't read maps unless they are facing the same way as I am, oriented with the actual world, but that must be common because phones do show them that way now.

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                                        You FEEL me! I'm in the woods and on the water, every week. I go places others do not. I got a "mechanical" compass at all times, a compass on my Casio, a compass on my phone. Not like I can read them for shit, but I can at least get pointed, roughly, the right way home.

                                        I refurb crappy guns for fun. I'll tear a 50s shotgun down, get it all cleaned up, wood redone, all that, and then have to call my 22-yo friend across the street, "Hey Dave! Can you come look at this?" He puzzles over it for a few and everything snaps back into place.

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                                          I find this interesting. I know the OP's question specifically asked for things that don't affect you day to day, but do you find any kind of daily activities difficult? Just random thoughts... Folding clothes? Parallel parking? IKEA furniture?

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                                          Funny enough, I can parallel park! When I was 16, so many decades ago, we were told we had to do it to pass the test, so I memorized the directions and practiced. Came time for the test, I knocked it out so perfectly the instructor was like, "OK, ya got it, next test.", before I even finished! Quite proud of that BTW!

                                          Wasn't until my 40s until I cold instinctively tell left from right, horizontal to vertical, still take a split second to think on it. At least I don't have to snap my left hand, only one I can do it on, to find left vs. right!

                                          Day to day? I have loads of crappy guns that I'm experimenting with. Love the hobby so much because it stretches my spatial recognition to the very limit without being too frustrating. For example, I was shooting, or trying to shoot, a little .22 rifle today. The bolt won't close all the way. For the fucking life of me I cannot see why it no longer moves far enough forward. One day I'll take it apart and put it back together again, it'll just work, and I'll have no idea why.

                                          And no, I cannot fold a fitted sheet. My mother could make one flat as a pancake and wrap a gift like it came from a robot. Me? Nope.

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