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The best thing you can do for the fediverse is just be kind

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  • softestsapphic@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

    Sorry but right wingers aren't welcome here.

    If (Republicans/Tankies/Fascists) want any voice here they can go get fucked.

    If they acted in good faith and were capable of processing reality they wouldn't identify as such.

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    Your comment history is deranged

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      !lemmysilver

      Lemmy is filled with too much hate, hopefully things can change

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      Aww thanks.

      I didn't even know that was a thing. Neat.

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        Look what you made me do!

        I wouldn't have considered genocide, if you weren't so idealistic!!

        If you had only partnered up with the people who only car about money, we could have returned to the status quo.

        Mate, the goal is to be idealistic. No one is perfect, but we want to strive for what's the best and hope we reach there some day.

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        #170

        Yes, but not at the cost of letting fascists win. Harm reduction is real.

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          Saved because would be interesting to read what the people that want to set others property on fire and guillotine people, think that is actually being kind

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          I'm not sure I follow-
          Are you saying you think I want to set people's stuff on fire and guillotine people, or that you think responders in this thread do?

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          • tourist@lemmy.worldT [email protected]

            expose your fetishes

            now

            you have no choice

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            #172

            No choice? Oh my~

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            • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.deG [email protected]

              i hope the quality stays up in here and we don't enshittify like reddit facebook and every other bigger internet network.

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              I wish too. Unfortunately, the redditors are coming here, and i've noticed a pretty big spike in racism/transphobia πŸ˜„ I've been trying to keep them on a leash, reporting them to other admins directly and banning them from dbzer0, but the attitude itself being there disappoints me heavily πŸ˜•

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                Unless you're a republican or other type of nazi. Then you can absolutely go all the way to hell.

                Tolerance got us here.

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                Lol the irony

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                  Bro can't you even follow the premise of the thread for like 2 comments

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                  Yeah I disagree with the premise. I was nice to people who wanted me dead for years. I'm fucking done.

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                  • cris_color@lemmy.worldC [email protected]

                    The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

                    On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

                    • Be kind

                    • Ask people what they think, and why

                    • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility

                    • Engage sincerely

                    • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

                    • Make this small space worth being in

                    A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

                    Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

                    The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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                    Hating successful people is the best way to insure your own failure.
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                      Unless you're a republican or other type of nazi. Then you can absolutely go all the way to hell.

                      Tolerance got us here.

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                      #177

                      Except the non-US republicans, they're cool πŸ˜„

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                      • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.deG [email protected]

                        i hope the quality stays up and i guess that we're non-commercial might help with this; as we're not pushing people to use this platform; the people here are people who actually want to use this platform and i guess that in itself could do a good thing.

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                        I wish too. Unfortunately, the redditors are coming here, and i've noticed a pretty big spike in racism/transphobia πŸ˜„ I've been trying to keep them on a leash, reporting them to other admins directly and banning them from dbzer0, but the attitude itself being there disappoints me heavily πŸ˜•

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                          Lol the irony

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                          Zero irony. Nothing funny here. Nazis fuck off. Republicans fuck off. Trumpers fuck off.

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                            Zero irony. Nothing funny here. Nazis fuck off. Republicans fuck off. Trumpers fuck off.

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                            And zero self awareness lmao

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                              Lol the irony

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                              The nazis during WW2 were defeated with love and kindness πŸ€—

                              (lol no, we shot them to death)

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                                And zero self awareness lmao

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                                https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance

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                                  The nazis during WW2 were defeated with love and kindness πŸ€—

                                  (lol no, we shot them to death)

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                                  Liar. They were destroyed with facts and logic, duh

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                                  • fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.comF [email protected]

                                    I wish too. Unfortunately, the redditors are coming here, and i've noticed a pretty big spike in racism/transphobia πŸ˜„ I've been trying to keep them on a leash, reporting them to other admins directly and banning them from dbzer0, but the attitude itself being there disappoints me heavily πŸ˜•

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                                    This unfortunately happens each time Reddit steps on a rake. They tend to come in waves.

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                                    • cris_color@lemmy.worldC [email protected]

                                      The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

                                      On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

                                      • Be kind

                                      • Ask people what they think, and why

                                      • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility

                                      • Engage sincerely

                                      • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

                                      • Make this small space worth being in

                                      A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

                                      Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

                                      The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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                                      Love this

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                                      • davel@lemmy.mlD [email protected]

                                        This unfortunately happens each time Reddit steps on a rake. They tend to come in waves.

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                                        Oddly enough i haven't seen any from .ml, so good job keeping the fucks off lemmy. Can't saw the same for LW and SJW sadly, though i always ping the admins each time i see em.

                                        If only we can keep them contained to hilariouschaos or their own instance, at least. If you're going to be racist, at least do it there and spare us from the BS.

                                        redditors were the reason i left reddit, too many racism against arabs so i decided lemmy would be a better place. It still has a couple of the traits left over, but it's miles better than that shithole. So i'm really disappointed seeing them here πŸ˜• though it's funny seeing them get dunked on lol

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                                        • softestsapphic@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                                          Sorry but right wingers aren't welcome here.

                                          If (Republicans/Tankies/Fascists) want any voice here they can go get fucked.

                                          If they acted in good faith and were capable of processing reality they wouldn't identify as such.

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                                          That is a very specific interpretation of what I meant by this post.

                                          To be perfectly honest, I really wasn't making the point you should approve of nazis. Just that maybe it's worth putting effort into being kind to one another...

                                          For example, I constantly see leftists online biting eachother's heads off (including on lemmy) for having slightly different left-wing ideology. Its not like "approach people you disagree with with curiosity" means specifically actual neonazis, and approaching someone with curiosity doesn't mean telling people "your idea is correct and you're right for thinking it"

                                          It means trying to understand it. You can dislike someone and still gain from better understanding their worldview. Even if you think it's harmful. Even if you think it's illogical. Even if you think they're wrong. Curiousity isn't tacit approval.

                                          If you want to think about it cynically you can consider it creating allies and knowing your enemy.

                                          I understand we disagree on certain things, that's okay, these are just my thoughts on the subject, and it's a profoundly important one, so I can appreciate why people would have different strongly held beliefs on it. Hope you have a good one πŸ™‚

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