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Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

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  • T [email protected]

    Well you asked a question with a complicated answer. Dean Spade is a prolific and respected writer and organizer, and his thoughts on the matter are relatively concise compared to the volumes upon volumes written by his predecessors in anarchist thought.

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    im curious about they differentiate it themselves as a person not how an academic defines it.

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    • povoq@slrpnk.netP [email protected]

      The title already gives it away 😜

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      it doesnt and its why i asked lol then i opened the link and saw its over 10 paragraphs

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      • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

        Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

        And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

        This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

        Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

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        @atomicpoet @fediverse I'm glad someone brought this up. I basically assume all mutual aid posts are fraudulent unless strictly verifiable.

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        • B [email protected]

          May you be blessed for your generosity on this day! I would love to receive your cat, however in my village there is a small fee for the postage of the animals. I am, of course, willing to cover the fee - however it must be sent to the village post centre by Western Union transfer by the sender. If you send the $3500 I will reimburse you.

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          Oh no! Sadly, I cannot. Maybe go grab another kitty from the shelter. Good luck!

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          • G [email protected]

            I'd argue that telephones are the original federated service. There were fits and starts to getting the proprietary Bell/AT&T network to play nice with devices or lines not operated by them, but the initial system for long distance calling over the North American Numbering Plan made it possible for an AT&T customer to dial non-AT&T customers by the early 1950's, and set the groundwork for the technical feasibility of the breakup of the AT&T/Bell monopoly.

            We didn't call it spam then, but unsolicited phone calls have always been a problem.

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            What we really need (and have always needed) is an update to the legal frameworks that classify what networks are and what protections are in place for users to ensure interoperability. The Internet has been the wild west for too bloody long, and the extractors and their monopolies need to be put away. That's why they have been so happy to jump in with Donny Diaper at this point, because he's letting them not only continue with impunity, but bring back company scrip.

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            • L [email protected]

              Because let's ignore the topic and focus on the wording.

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              It's not ignoring the topic. Mutual aid is an organized operation. Literally says it the link. This is not mutual aid. The topic is about "mutual aid spam" which this is not at all an example of "mutual aid". This is just begging or panhandling or scamming.

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              • T [email protected]

                This is nothing, on hexbear there's a person pretending to be like half a dozen different Palestinians with different fraudulent GoFundMe. They cook up a new persona like every other week using pictures they scrape from the media and then run it through an AI filter.

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                Sorry but that’s just funny.

                It’s like grifting Trump supporters.

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                • noxypaws@pawb.socialN [email protected]

                  my inhaler is $70 per month with insurance. though it's a bit different from an albuterol inhaler, mine is a dry powder steroid thing, and it has a VERY short 30 day shelf life once opened.

                  was $10 last year with insurance, but of course that shit changes every year..

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                  Wow that's awful.

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                  • W [email protected]

                    Yeah, mutual aid works on the local level or in insular communities like long-term discord groups with a tight group of regular members. With community mutual aid, I'm generally in favor of just taking people at their word. If they say they need help, give them help. No need to interrogate them like the food stamp office will. You prevent people from abusing the system by simply not granting endless requests from the same person. Or if someone needs severe aid, at that point you can start actually verifying their story, helping them access government benefits, helping them find employment, etc.

                    But that kind of open approach works for in-person aid. It doesn't work for anonymous online aid, where someone can use bots to spin up hundreds of convincing profiles each begging for money.

                    I just don't think mutual aid works well in an online context. The only online context it works in is among communities like small discord groups where people know each other for years. But on a lemmy or mastadon-type service? Mutual aid is impractical. Any people asking for aid should be directed to local groups that can help them in person.

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                    I see a lot of teenagers falling for the ā€œI’m a Gazan and need help getting out.ā€ accounts too.

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                    • C [email protected]

                      That's not mutual aid, that's scam spam. Report it.

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                      One problem with reporting private messages on Lermy is, as an admin i don't see who sent the message. I only see who reported it. And i don't have any actlon available, other than marking the report as handled.

                      with reported posts, i can ban the poster. With reported messages i'd have to ask the reporter who it was, trust their answer, search for the account manually and then i could ban. Not really efficient or fast if there ever was a spam wave.

                      of course sparmers could then just register a new account on a open instance and i might need to defederates which would lead to a fractured landscape of spammy open instances and likely inactive private instances.

                      there's also not even rudimantary spam filtering in lemmy.

                      The main saving grace is that Lemmy is too small to attract a ton of spam yet.

                      maybe some of the above is just due my pick of clients (jerboa and the web interface), and there's better tools? If so, i'd love to hear. But as things stand right now, there's a lot to be desired

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                        One problem with reporting private messages on Lermy is, as an admin i don't see who sent the message. I only see who reported it. And i don't have any actlon available, other than marking the report as handled.

                        with reported posts, i can ban the poster. With reported messages i'd have to ask the reporter who it was, trust their answer, search for the account manually and then i could ban. Not really efficient or fast if there ever was a spam wave.

                        of course sparmers could then just register a new account on a open instance and i might need to defederates which would lead to a fractured landscape of spammy open instances and likely inactive private instances.

                        there's also not even rudimantary spam filtering in lemmy.

                        The main saving grace is that Lemmy is too small to attract a ton of spam yet.

                        maybe some of the above is just due my pick of clients (jerboa and the web interface), and there's better tools? If so, i'd love to hear. But as things stand right now, there's a lot to be desired

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                        I wish I had approximately double the hours in a given day, and also vastly more coding skill to help in meaningful ways.

                        It seems sort of odd that comments or messages reported for spam don’t offer any tools. Even a simple url pattern match that gives mods/admins the ability to click a checkbox to remember the link and take some predefined action in the future would be a rudimentary but effective option.

                        I mean, heck, it’s the fediverse. In my fantasy implementation of an anti-spam approach, it would be possible to federate these lists of untrusted links and assign consensus-based confidence scores for links generated from moderator actions across instances. (With options for instance admins to tailor their own trust scores of other instances, so that each instance can choose for themselves who they trust, just in case a couple rogue instance admins try to poison the spam filter.)
                        Same concept can be applied to banned accounts, although in that circumstance, I’d suggest they find a way to mask the email address when sharing it. Not that folks won’t just spin up a new email. But, you know. Something is better than nothing.

                        Hopefully that makes sense. I’m losing my mind with sleep deprivation.

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                        • xnx@slrpnk.netX [email protected]

                          Can you just tell me lmao i dont wanna read an essay

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                          Mutual aid is a form of [collaborative] political participation in which people take responsibility for caring for one another and changing political conditions, not just through symbolic acts or putting pressure on their representatives in government but by actually building new social relations that are more survivable.

                          Charity comes with eligibility requirements that relate to these moral frameworks of deservingness, such as sobriety, piety, curfews, participation in job training or parenting courses, cooperation with the police, or identifying the paternity of children.
                          Nonprofitization has reproduced antidemocratic, racist, and colonial relationships between the winners and losers of extractive, exploitative economic arrangements.

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                          • T [email protected]

                            This is nothing, on hexbear there's a person pretending to be like half a dozen different Palestinians with different fraudulent GoFundMe. They cook up a new persona like every other week using pictures they scrape from the media and then run it through an AI filter.

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                            Same on Bluesky. And they are everywhere. Couple of years ago some accounts did this multiple times on Imgur. Even today occasionally some pop up again, but now the users are quick to call them out…with the admins doing jack shit. Which is classic for that site.

                            When coming across a sob story my knee jerk reaction is ā€œbullshitā€. If you want to give money to charity, do so through a reputable organisation. And don’t trust any rando on the internet.

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                            • pugjesus@lemmy.worldP [email protected]

                              I was just offered 500$ to be someone's friend. Of course, I refused - my friendship is worth much more than that!

                              But it's... concerning that we've got this sudden spike in spam.

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                              …

                              What kind of friend are we talking about?

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                              • F [email protected]

                                I agree. E-mail is the original federated service. And 50 years later, e-mail spam remains a big problem. I hope Fedi projects can get spam mitigations on-par with email, before spammers start getting serious about this place.

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                                Unfortunately, email solved the spam problem by becoming centralized AF. Now everything requires a ā€œreputationā€.

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                                  Unfortunately, email solved the spam problem by becoming centralized AF. Now everything requires a ā€œreputationā€.

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                                  "Email solved the spam problem by becoming centralizing" yeah most of the span I get is from gmail or has a reply-to header with gmail address

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                                  • xnx@slrpnk.netX [email protected]

                                    Can you just tell me lmao i dont wanna read an essay

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                                    Mutual aide is mutual

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                                    • L [email protected]

                                      I don’t think mutual aid can work well like that on the internet. Works great in person,

                                      That can be an incredibly privileged position to be in to say. Some people are in situations so bad in their meatspace life that "the random internet" is actually more trustworthy.

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                                      It might be better for them but it’s not better for the internet strangers, now there is an unknown beggar in their space.

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                                      • L [email protected]

                                        How is this mutual aid spam? This is by definition not mutual. It's begging.

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                                        It is "mutual aid spam" because I believe these are posted in mutual aid communities.

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                                        • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

                                          Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

                                          And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

                                          This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

                                          Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

                                          @[email protected]

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                                          i had helped 2 people through Mastodon who seemed to genuinely need it on Mastodon a few months ago. I think it is nice to know that I can help people who need and they might help in my time of need.It is functional.

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