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What is the most infuriating "is not a big deal" you have ever heard?

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    When people dismiss children's concerns. Maybe to adults is not a big deal, but to kids it does matter. I make an effort to pay attention and listen when a child tells me something.

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    This. Sexual abuse goes ignored because of this attitude in parents

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      US War Crimes!

      bUt oRaNgE mAn iS wOrSe.

      Why do you think he acts like he rules the world, you wankers? cuz you've defended your presidents from any consequences, forever.

      But, now you have a problem?

      How does it feel like to taste your own medicine?

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      I dislike US rule because it self-imposes itself over the entire world, trying to insert its media in every facet of everyone's life, its military in impoverished countries, effectively forcing them to stay poor and "not a threat to US democracy" under the guise of rescue, etc.. One state's terrorist is a people's freedom fighter. I looked back at 9/11 for example, the event they're still sensitive about. The US, through oppression and infestation, turned men into the 'terrorists' that became Al Qaeda.

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          Not a specific example, but it infuriates me more than anything when people say it doesn't matter that hardware, software and media are becoming increasingly dependent on an internet connection to operate.

          People lack the foresight to care that the things they are paying for right now, wont last like similar things do from 10-20+ years ago.

          Your old dvds, vhs, cds, vinyls, game consoles, tvs telephones.

          The current implementations of these mediums have taken ownership away from the consumer, and nobody cares.

          I anticipate a massive loss of historically pertinent hardware and information that will result in the new norm of paying for limited access to anything and everything.

          Maximum consumption and profit, minimal preservation and environmental efficiency.

          Nobody cares, like we are all slowly boiling frogs.

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          #34

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            Lack of high quality public transit.

            "Just drive bro"

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            • lady_maria@lemmy.worldL [email protected]

              I also feel particularly passionate about this, as felt totally dismissed by nearly every adult in my life as a kid. That shit feels so defeating and isolating. it can seriously fuck you up.

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              as felt totally dismissed by nearly every adult in my life as a kid

              So at some point it stopped?

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              • j4k3@lemmy.worldJ [email protected]

                ads based internet is the death of democracy

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                Why are ads being made for the internet?

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                • black0ut@pawb.socialB [email protected]

                  If you torrent media, you should keep it at least until you have a positive ratio. Torrenting is a group effort, and every time someone has a negative ratio, someone else needs to overcompensate for it. If you don't keep your ratios, you're also making the torrent die, which is bad for media preservation.

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                  That last word is the motivator to seed:

                  Preservation

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                  • umbrella@lemmy.mlU [email protected]

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                    I buy the games that deserve it, when i can afford it.

                    Over 900 games on steam, not garbage either.

                    Piracy has its place, but voting with the wallet is important too.

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                      I buy the games that deserve it, when i can afford it.

                      Over 900 games on steam, not garbage either.

                      Piracy has its place, but voting with the wallet is important too.

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                        Eating meat. It contributes 15-20% of the entire planets greenhouse gasses alone. And people do it just for pleasure. It's mindboggling.

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                          Capitalism isn't a big deal. As though giving a select few billions won't corrupt the nation around them over time.

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                          • threeduck@aussie.zoneT [email protected]

                            Eating meat. It contributes 15-20% of the entire planets greenhouse gasses alone. And people do it just for pleasure. It's mindboggling.

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                            Legalize cannibalism

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                              I had a discussion/argument in ~2018 with a friend who is/was very anti-trump. I brought up the dangers of ICE and how, at the time, they were the biggest sign of an overtly fascist future. He immediately handwaved it and dismissed me as crazy.

                              He's got a degree in history education and was obsessed with WW2 history, so I didn't think this would be a point of contention. But for a lot of liberals (including him) Fascists have to literally be wearing a swastika before they're called what they are. Some won't even acknowledge the existence of a Nazi Salute when they see one.

                              Even today he's obsessed with Trump as the single anomaly in US politics and doesn't see the bigger picture.

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                              A force like ice is necessary though. Unregulated immigration does result in issues in the receiving country;that only works when 2 countries are economically similar. It's their use that's indictive of faciam rather than their existence imo

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                              • lyra_lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zoneL [email protected]

                                This. Sexual abuse goes ignored because of this attitude in parents

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                                Absolutely and lets add that some children only disclose once to a trusted adult who might not always pay attention.
                                It breaks my heart.

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                                • lady_maria@lemmy.worldL [email protected]

                                  I also feel particularly passionate about this, as felt totally dismissed by nearly every adult in my life as a kid. That shit feels so defeating and isolating. it can seriously fuck you up.

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                                  It is. Sending you an internet Hug. You matter and should have had someone who listened to you back then. ๐Ÿ’œ

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                                  • ultragigagigantic@lemmy.mlU [email protected]

                                    Why are ads being made for the internet?

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                                    ?

                                    The comment is about the case google won for collection and selling data of individuals and the ramifications of that case. This is the primary underlying issue in the present.

                                    The right to own and sell a part of a personโ€”their digital self is ultimately a forfeiture of autonomous citizenship. It is also an implied forfeiture of freedom of information which is the third pillar of democracy. Allowing the ownership over a part of a citizen is giving up citizenship. This is why you do not own anything, and everything is a subscription, and enshitification; it is all due to this one core issue of your right to own all of yourself free from slavery including the sale and exploitation of a part of your person. This is a master link, the precedent that lead to where we are at. "The ads based internet" is about the sale and collection of your personal data with the intent to exploit you. That is a violation of a fundamental human right. This was never about banner ads. It is about placing people in information bubbles and spheres of influence. It is about stupid consumers and corporate overlords extracting taxes for every move a peasant makes. Such is the true power of controlling information. Like your internet search results are not deterministic. It does not matter where you search. There are only 2 web crawlers that are relevant in the present world; Google/Microsoft. All others indirectly query these two. They can fingerprint and track nearly everyone in real time. You are being targeted for more than just ads. This is the death of democracy because a citizen must be autonomous and well informed in any democracy and this is not possible when you can be manipulated through bowdlerization and targeted misinformation or overload.

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                                    • H [email protected]

                                      When looking at firearm homicides specifically, in terms of raw numbers (not rate), the low point was 2014, during Obama's second term. It started to move upwards in '15 and '16, prior to Trump taking office, and continued increasing at the same pace through '17. We the first real sharp jump in '18, but then an equally sharp decline in '19, back to levels on par with Obama's last year in office. Interestingly, Biden's 2nd year as president (2022) had the most number of firearm homicides in, I dunno, 20-odd years?

                                      We'd been on a long, downward trend in homicides since '92. It's not clear to me what caused the rate to begin to head back up. I don't think that Obama, Trump, or Biden can realistically be directly blamed for the bulk of it, although a small number of homicides at the margins might be more directly related to them (e.g., Trump encourages racial violence, and so a small number of homicide might be due to his tacit support). I don't think that it's directly related to economics either, because the economy that Obama inherited when he took office in 2009 had been wrecked by the housing bubble crash; it it was directly related to economics, then I would have thought that gun violence would be peaking around '09 or '10. I guess it could be a lagging indicator though?

                                      Again, keep in mind that these are homicides, and not suicides. firearm suicides still make up the majority of deaths caused by firearms in the US.

                                      OTOH, I understand what you mean about feeling less safe under Trump, even if there wasn't an immediate spike in gun homicides. I know a lot of people--esp. LGBTQ+ people--are feeling very unsafe with Trump in the White House right now, and I believe that they're right to feel unsafe and at-risk.

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                                      Oh hey, I appreciate the info! Seems I misremembered. I actually attempted to double check before posting but kept getting wildly different numbers from different sources.

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                                      • ultragigagigantic@lemmy.mlU [email protected]

                                        Legalize cannibalism

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                                        What consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home is not the matter of the state!

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                                        • threeduck@aussie.zoneT [email protected]

                                          Eating meat. It contributes 15-20% of the entire planets greenhouse gasses alone. And people do it just for pleasure. It's mindboggling.

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                                          What? Meat provide like 90% of my protein intake. What are you suggesting here? Stop living?

                                          Oh yeah, you are doing fine just by eating vegetables. I don't.

                                          And no, I don't eat meat to have pleasure. I eat it to live.

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