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What’s an unspoken rule that absolutely everyone should know, but most people clearly don’t?

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    When driving, you should engage your turn signal before you start applying the brakes in preparation for your turn.

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      If you need to stop while walking on a path, inside or outside, step to the side. I can’t believe how many people just abruptly stop to look at their phone, have a conversation, point out something they find interesting… like my guy, would you do that in a car? Fucking GOOOOOO!!

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        Or at the top of the stairs/ escalator you just came up. There are people behind you with nowhere to go while you decide which way you want to go.

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        How grown adults can stand around, mouth agape, in apparent wonder that they’ve been transported to the next floor up just escapes me. It’s a conveyer belt behind you, Gladys, fucking MOVE!!! Just one or two steps to the side even if you still need to wrap your head around what just happened to you.

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          don't hold your phone while driving

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            Elevator, all public transport, buildings. There’s more space outside. Stop cramping.

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            Yes! And to those getting out: don't stop or walk super slow the moment you are out, people are trying to get in, get out of the way!

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              When driving, you should engage your turn signal before you start applying the brakes in preparation for your turn.

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              This is my husband's "pet peeve", as he puts it. "Don't just throw on your brake in the middle of the road! Why are you slowing down? Signal!"

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                When waiting at a red light, cars are supposed to stay out of the pedestrian crosswalk

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                The red light cameras here will call that running a red light, you have to leave it clear by law. That's a spoken rule.

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                  The red light cameras here will call that running a red light, you have to leave it clear by law. That's a spoken rule.

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                  It's a written rule, but where I live no one seems to pay any attention to it.

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                    This is my husband's "pet peeve", as he puts it. "Don't just throw on your brake in the middle of the road! Why are you slowing down? Signal!"

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                    I originally got this one from an Actual Advice Mallard meme.

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                      Do not start or continue a phone conversation when going to the bathroom - public or private restroom but especially in public bathrooms.

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                        Even if you have a green light at the crossrowds you shouldn't drive if you can see that you have no way of exiting the crossroads and would block others e.g. there is a traffic jam on the road you want to drive into.

                        (at least in Poland)

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                          Since the majority of people in the world are idiots, and management tends to collect them at a higher rate than other roles, you will generally be rewarded more for how you make others feel than the amount or quality of your work. A person with a 10 in charisma and 4 int gets farther than the person with a 10 int and a 7 in charisma most of the time. Focus on learning better people skills. If you find a place where your work is recognized you should cherish it.

                          Also in the US the left lane is for passing the right lanes.

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                            If you need to stop while walking on a path, inside or outside, step to the side. I can’t believe how many people just abruptly stop to look at their phone, have a conversation, point out something they find interesting… like my guy, would you do that in a car? Fucking GOOOOOO!!

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                            Other people exist???

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                              If you need to stop while walking on a path, inside or outside, step to the side. I can’t believe how many people just abruptly stop to look at their phone, have a conversation, point out something they find interesting… like my guy, would you do that in a car? Fucking GOOOOOO!!

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                              Yes, those same people are likely to act the same way in a car

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                                Yes! And to those getting out: don't stop or walk super slow the moment you are out, people are trying to get in, get out of the way!

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                                And escalators. I forgot one of the reasons I hated shopping with my ex but this past weekend we had to get some stuff for our kid. Sure enough, STOPPED as she stepped off the escalator. Wtf

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                                  If you need to have a conversation with someone, don't block the entire hallway to do it.

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                                  This gets so bad at groceries certain times of the day.

                                  But I get really annoyed at them at places like Costco. The aisle is like 15’ wide: how are you even managing to get this much in the way

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                                    EDIT it seems to be a misunderstanding based on the misinterpretation of original statement. It was edited since then to clarify, rendering the original discussion obsolete.

                                    Cars should NOT stay on the crosswalk when the red light is on. You should only drive through the crosswalk if the light is green and there is space behind the crosswalk enough to fit your car. If you stay there, blocking the crosswalk - you are in the wrong.

                                    Pedestrians, however, can enter the crosswalk on green and continue crossing the road even if the traffic light turns red. It's still a good tone, however, to plan ahead and not make drivers wait.

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                                    A Wikipedia piece on that very issue to hopefully settle us:

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                                    Red light prohibits entering the junction, not staying there. There are some rare regional deviations, such as in New York City, but generally staying after red is not a violation - at least as long as the junction is not specially marked by yellow grid.

                                    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rules_for_traffic_lights

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                                    Red light prohibits entering the junction, not staying there.

                                    While true, That kind of talk leads to gridlock as more people enter the intersection expecting to go after the light is red. It also leads to more “stretching the yellow” well into red lights.

                                    People don’t seem to get the distinction that it’s to allow getting unstuck. It’s not to encourage entering the intersection when you can’t go anywhere (welll … except for some poorly implemented intersections where that’s the only way to turn left)

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                                      I had a friend who's latest and greatest dating advice was to go back and hangout at the college I graduated from (at the time already) several years ago.

                                      I thought it was an incredibly disingenuous and creepy suggestion.

                                      Him and his partner were like "it's totally fine..."

                                      Not a single female friend disagreed with me that, that would be very creepy and I absolutely should not do that.

                                      He got mad that I would never listen to his (terrible) dating advice.

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                                      I do remember from college there were women who were into this. It may be a successful strategy if you have no shame or morals

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                                        It is very carbrain rot but I call them highway rules. On countries that drive on the right, the right side if for on-off ramps and cruising. Left side is for passing. No one expects to be passed on the right side, because that is the biggest blind spot on cars. Switch for countries that drive on the left side.

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                                        This is one I’m guilty of. There are too many left lane campers and I just don’t have patience for that anymore. Why do so many drivers immediately move to the fast lane rather than “stay right except to pass”?

                                        Why do so many drivers insist their definition of fast is the one true definition, rather than choose the lane based on relative speed and let the cops worry about who is too fast?

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                                          Worked at a Starbucks in college that was open until midnight. One time there were a couple of girls hanging out and didn’t leave when 12 rolled around. We started doing our closing tasks, locked the doors, etc. and they still remained. Finally I was starting to mop the floor and one of them said to me, “Were you going to ask us to leave?” And I said, “We’re not allowed to.” They were so apologetic after that. Yeah whatever, just get the hell out.

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                                          That’s such a crime that you can’t. There’s probably a lot of the time it’s just lack of awareness.

                                          I’ll always remember this one store we were shopping in, literally killing time. The workers kept asking if we needed help but we were just looking. No big deal. It wasn’t until we left that we saw the sign and realized it was long past closing. We were the assholes out of obliviousness. I will always wish they were allowed to tell us about closing time

                                          It’s especially egregious because most larger stores have announcements. If my grocery can announce “15 minutes ….”, why can’t that little shop?

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