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What's the underrated quote that will stick with you for life?

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    But who hurt elon?

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    His father is a real piece of shit. Like evej when compared to Elon. But also he grew up in a society defined by a particular level of violence. Even though he was the privileged group there the violence was still present and there was violence to all, including the violence to teach the white children to be the oppressors.

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      Never tie your identity to something that can be taken away. Re: job title, salary, perceived status. Your self perceived identity should have a much more stable foundation.

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      I like it. Remember where it's from?

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      • decentm@lemmy.mlD [email protected]

        "Nobody will take care of you if you don't take care of yourself"

        Apply this to pushing back on contracts, double checking what you're asked to do, and putting yourself first, and you'll get a lot more respect in my experience. If you primarily put others first, your self will feel neglected. It doesn't mean you should not care for others, but that your highest priority should be yourself, and then others.

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        A life lesson I'll learn one day. Trying my best though, but it'll take time. Thanks for sharing.

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        • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

          Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

          Mine would be :

          "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

          For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

          Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

          How about you?

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          "Everything you want in life has teeth", by the writer Jonathan Carroll. I believe it means that everything you pursue will hurt you in some way.

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          • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

            I like it. Remember where it's from?

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            A former mentor of mine, and I found it rather compelling the more I reflected on the implications.

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            • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

              Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

              Mine would be :

              "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

              For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

              Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

              How about you?

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              • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

                Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

                Mine would be :

                "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

                For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

                Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

                How about you?

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                Sadly, pretty much all struggles against a common oppressor take on heavy identity characteristics and have the accompanying problems. It's the main reason they don't work immediately.

                Anyway, probably "If I can't build something I don't understand it", by Richard Feynman (although the exact wording varies by source). If I write a book that's probably going to take up the first page.

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                  But who hurt elon?

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                  I mean, he's autistic in addition to being a bad person, so probably a large collection of people throughout his life who may or may not have even comprehended his side of the interaction.

                  Comorbidity of autism with severe mental health problems is stupid high.

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                    Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use.

                    Earl Nightingale

                    Someone shared the phrase "The time will pass anyway" with me back when I was working on getting healthier. It was a constant reminder that there was no "best" day to start my journey and that anytime I was set back, I could pick things back up right away.

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                    I have people in my life who think my level of patience is superhuman or some shit, but it's just this. Don't think about what you're working towards, just what you should be doing today.

                    It seems simple to me, but I guess it's not to them.

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                    • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

                      Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

                      Mine would be :

                      "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

                      For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

                      Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

                      How about you?

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                      "Don't let perfect be the enemy of good."

                      I would be so far ahead of where I am right now if I had just decided on a course and committed instead of analyzing all the choices to death.

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                      • djdarren@sopuli.xyzD [email protected]

                        I don't necessarily think it's underrated because it's the underpinning of a major religion, but;

                        Existence is suffering.

                        The first noble truth of Buddhism that I don't think enough people really grasp.

                        On first read, those three words sound like an angsty teen being all sad, but a deeper exploration tells us that to expect a life of ease and unending contentment is to set ourselves up for continued disappointment and anguish.

                        When I first really absorbed the meaning of this it actually made me feel incredible. I am alive, therefore my knee hurts. I am alive, so I'm worried for the welfare of those I love. And when I considered it even further I began to understand that this is something that connects us all, regardless of our status in the world. From the most powerful kings and presidents to those sleeping rough begging for change; we are all fundamentally the same.

                        For me, it's really helped me to push through boundaries that have stopped me being more assertive with those who are more powerful than I am; managers, bosses and such. My boss worries about stuff the same way I do. It's probably different stuff, sure, but he's still experiencing existential pain.

                        I am not a Buddhist, nor am I particularly spiritual. But I take a lot of inspiration from that phrase.

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                        I've gravitated more towards "desire is suffering", but the general place avoiding desire has taken me is not great. That one was probably bullshit.

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                          Creative minds are uneven, and the best of fabrics have their dull spots.

                          H.P. Lovecraft

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                          Given his political leanings, very appropriate.

                          TBH his writing style was a bit adjective-y too, although the world he built is fascinating. (I know less about his many letters and journals)

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                            a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

                            What do you think WW1 was about?

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                            Aristocrats throwing peasants at each other.

                            Maybe you're thinking of WW2.

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                            • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

                              Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

                              Mine would be :

                              "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

                              For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

                              Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

                              How about you?

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                              Do to others as you want done too you. Wouldnt say its under rated just not actually followed by the masses that preach it

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                                The Lenin one has been on my mind for like a year now. We're coming up on the anniversary of the February revolution and I'm hoping that as things get worse we'll see the point where we have had enough.

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                                Plenty of big flash points at current. I think we are seeing capitalism in disrepair, similar to 1920 Europe, world powers are rebalancing and competing for the now very limited resources. The working class are taking the brunt of the hardship and seek real change, and when trump can't make good on those promises we will see a real struggle.

                                Good luck out there comrade.

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                                  Rewatched that recently. I was really surprised how dark it sometimes gets for a kids' show. It still holds up really well!

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                                    The opposite of love is not hate, but apathy.

                                    Truly hating something takes passion, energy and time out of your day. It also taught me that for masters of personal interest, if you truly need to end a relationship with someone, you simply stop responding. It’s far more effective than loudly proclaiming what you feel they do wrong. That will take far more away from you than if you cut ties.

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                                    the opposite of 2 is not 0

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                                      Do to others as you want done too you. Wouldnt say its under rated just not actually followed by the masses that preach it

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                                      IMO some people take this too literally. Just because you want to be treated a certain way doesn't mean other people want to be treated that way.

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                                      • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

                                        Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

                                        Mine would be :

                                        "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

                                        For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

                                        Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

                                        How about you?

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                                        Dad told me when I was young to "learn to drink your coffee black and cold and you'll never be disappointed."

                                        I don't think he was just talking about coffee.

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                                        • needthosepylons@lemmy.worldN [email protected]

                                          Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

                                          Mine would be :

                                          "Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

                                          For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

                                          Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

                                          How about you?

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                                          Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it. Those who know history are doomed to know it's repeating.

                                          It's the second part that makes this otherwise well know phrase hit much closer to home for me.

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