would dating him be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes?
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thanks so much đź«‚ gave me the ick a little that he barely acknowledged that i liked girls. he only cared about if i liked guys or had a bf, he only got upset when i liked a guy.
it’s almost as if he was trying to act like i was straight, which was a bit insulting to me. if i had a gf/liked a girl, he would act like that meant i was just single and not attracted to anyone at all.
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thanks so much!
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I don't think it's unfair as long as you clearly communicate it and the other person is okay with it. Lots of oddities can be okay and fair as long as they're clearly communicated about and agreed on.
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as a bigender person, i identified as transfem as a teen. i had similar problems online where men would deny my bisexuality because for some reason, it’s gay for me to have a close and intimate friendship with a dude now that i’m more masc, but as a transfem, dating women just means “you’re gal pals”
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Someone who will treat you well won't need to tell you that they will treat you well. It's kind of like how liars and scammers make a big deal about how honest they are. Another big clue is that he was telling you this while both of you were with other people. He cheats on one partner, he'd cheat on you, too.
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i agree with this. also, i feel like if they do it (he never said if they wore protection), the girl might’ve been acting weird because she was pregnant and he just leaves her. that’s sick.
(i cant say for sure but it might be a possibility)
op, it’s possible that he just wants u to meet up with him, have sex, and then leave once u either dont act how he wants u too or if u get pregnant. since he doesn’t seem to take no for an answer, he could also either pressure you into sex or just pressure you into not wearing protection if you choose to do so.
he doesn’t accept dissent in other matters, why would he in sex? especially if he discusses sexual topics with you.
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he broke up before he said all this. he was clearly into me and hitting on me before they broke up though, and the rest still stands. tysm
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Listen to that ick!! That's the part of you that knows your worth
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I'd argue the man is worse. Not saying it's right, but OP is around 18 and all she did was want to date him out of loneliness. What other red flags do you see that I didn't catch?
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OP, you're still barely an adult, but using people to get over a breakup is not ok under any circumstances. I get you're sad, but you're in no place to date anyone right now
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He sounds extremely abusive.
