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why the hell cant men stay out of women-only spaces?

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  • E [email protected]

    Blahaj certified comment

    Obviously it's blahaj again

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    Blahaj: discriminating minorities is forbidden, discriminating majorities is allowed

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    • B [email protected]

      These comments…

      what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

      +1

      Community rules are community rules, and you can either follow them or get banned from the community. How is ‘women only’ any different?

      As for the excuse of visibility: the rule is very often in the title, and the initial post, yet not followed.

      As for the excuse of how they can tell: well if they can’t, okay, you evaded detection. But posts very often declare “I’m a guy and this is my take…”

      I honestly don’t get it, especially on an internet “refuge” like Lemmy where users should be sensitive to persecution and the importance of safe, moderated discussion spaces.

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      safe, moderated discussion spaces

      They're the most fake spaces, filled with copium and confirmation bias

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      • W [email protected]

        Something about a women only space triggers people. Just look at the people replying here. They can't seem to help themselves.

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        Something about a "group" only space will trigger me regardless.

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        • H [email protected]

          This is a false equivalency, my dude. There are definitely good reasons for people who generally face systemic discrimination (ie. Women, black people) to have separate communities from those they face discrimination from (men, white people). It’s not like they are trying to divorce themselves from society at large.

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          Why not have a community of people that are against this discrimination, rather than just having the targets of it? I feel like it doesn't really help..

          And anyways, pleading your cause publicly will always be better imo. Better to avoid confirmation bias and other bs

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          • H [email protected]

            A few points:

            1. It could be a mistake, but adding context without labeling it as an addition or an edit changes the view of the discourse that has already been made

            2. You once again flipped the discriminatory group and the group discriminatory against which is at best a misunderstanding and at worse malicious

            3. You are STILL wrong and are mansplaining. You don’t need to insert yourself into women’s discourse. You are literally the type of person women’s only spaces are built to protect against. While yes, help from those who are not discriminated against definitely help the discriminated, that help comes in listening to what they have to say and support. Your expressed viewpoint is more or less: “I am very important and you should hear what I have to say because it is helpful”. You are, intentionally or not, giving subtle hints that you are better than women and that’s why you should be allowed to force your way into their discourse. In this day and age, we call that sexism.

            Maybe that’s not your intention, but boy your writing is full of red flags

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            You are STILL wrong and are mansplaining

            Bro is defending itself and is mansplaining? I mean at this point stop throwing random words, just makes you look sexist

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            • A [email protected]

              Are women allowed to answer this question? It's directed at men.

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              Feel free, we're not on a discriminatory community

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              • A [email protected]

                What's wrong with you? Are you OK hun?

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                you posted cringe

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                • E [email protected]

                  For the same reason why women can't stay out of male-only spaces. Women have been demonizing male-only spaces for decades. If male-only spaces are bad, female-only spaces are bad... I see no other 'equal law for all genders' reasonable outcome

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                  They all suck because they eventually become discriminatory and redirect hate

                  You cannot clearly think if the only people you talk to agree with you

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                  • starlinguk@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                    Women are literally being persecuted.

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                    Strong word to use. They don't have it easy, but it's a good thing they're not being beaten with a stick every day

                    There are some assholes, they're always be sadly

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                    • therapygary@lemmy.blahaj.zoneT [email protected]

                      There's not. You sound exactly like people who try to justify throwing garbage in a recycling bin

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                      Wrong and dumb

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